女权主义者的性欲观

女权主义者的性欲观(读书笔记:杰茜卡瓦伦蒂:《正面全裸的女权主义》)笔者间接感觉,女权主义者都以些身穿男子西装剪着娃他妈发型叼着烟卷不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。未来才了然过来,原本女权主义者也可能有七情六欲的!不止如此,她们的欲念比平常女性越来越直白,越来越强势,更自私。瓦伦蒂用了全副一个章节来论述女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者更专长干那事(以及其余关于性的升迁)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTE卡宴 (AND OTHE奥迪Q5 SEX
TIPS)》。她当机立断就自己炫酷“笔者在床的上面比你行,而这得归功于女权主义。”(I’m
better in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for
it.)当代男权社会对女子有一种自相冲突的双重规范:一方面,女孩子在公共场面收受“守贞教育”,中午则在电视上见到“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被感化说婚前性行为是窘迫的,另一方面又报告您,你若想产生一名春假辣妹,你赶紧对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the
camera.)守贞国学家是那样来教育女生的:“你们的肉体正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与爱人发生性关系时,他剥去你的门面,含吮起来。那时候恐怕以为没有错,可缺憾的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下壹个人伴侣的便是衣冠不整,口水臭味的流毒。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker.
“)够耸人听大人说的。不过女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂提出的口号是:“小编的处女膜笔者做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves
)”她说:“小编从不闹精通处女贞操有啥样大不断,真的。笔者的贞节在中学时代就被一名男票没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了一点年吧。作者还认为会有何新鲜的痛感啊,未有。小编总以为这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉一回事很鲁钝。所以您能够想像,当自家发掘本人原本是被用过即弃的杂质时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash without
it.)作者比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是视如草芥男子的。然则在管理本身的人事时,她们对先生的千姿百态明朗又是另一番青山绿水。诚然,她们与相公上床,再亦非为了讨好郎君,更不是为了后继有人,而纯粹是为着协和的开心。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:一边做女权主义者,一边交合!(f***ing
while feminist
!)只是,面临一人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪一个人小男生消受得起?

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自身一贯认为,女权主义者都以些身穿男人西装剪着娃他爸发型叼着香烟不刮腋毛的中性人,直到读了瓦伦蒂那本《正面全裸的女权主义》。

现行反革命才精通过来,原本女权主义者也可以有七情六欲的!不仅仅如此,她们的私欲比通常女性更直接,更强势,更自私。

瓦伦蒂用了整套一个章节来阐释女权主义的性欲观。标题是《女权主义者越来越长于干那件事(以及其余关于性的提醒)FEMINISTS
DO IT BETTE奔驰M级 (AND OTHE悍马H2 SEX TIPS)》。

她开门见山就自己炫丽“作者在床的面上比你行,而这得归功于女权主义。”(I’m better
in bed than you are. And I have feminism to thank for it.)

今世父权社会对女孩子有一种自相冲突的双重标准:一方面,女生在大廷广众接受“守贞教育”,早上则在电视机上观望“女孩也疯狂”的广告。一方面,女孩被辅导说婚前性行为是颠三倒四的,另一方面又报告您,你若想变成一名春假辣妹,你急忙对着镜头宽衣解带吧!(When
you’re getting abstinence-only education during the day and Girls Gone
Wild commercials at night, it’s not exactly easy to develop a healthy
sexuality. You’re taught that sex before marriage is bad bad bad, but
that if you want to be a springbreak hottie, you’d better start making
out for the camera.)

守贞文学家是这么来教育女生的:“你们的人身正是一根棒棒糖。当你们与相公爆发性关系时,他剥去你的糖衣,含吮起来。那时候恐怕以为没有错,可可惜的是,他与你完事后,你们留给下一个人伴侣的正是衣冠不整,口水臭味的残渣。”(“Your
body is a wrapped lollipop. When you have sex with a man, he unwraps
your lollipop and sucks on it. It may feel great at the time, but
unfortunately, when he’s done with you, all you have left for your next
partner is a poorly wrapped, saliva-fouled sucker. “)

够耸人传闻的。然而女权主义者不吃这一套。瓦伦蒂建议的口号是:“笔者的处女膜小编做主!(Our
Hymens, Ourselves )

”她说:“笔者尚未闹了解处女贞操有如何大不断,真的。小编的贞操在中学时期就被一名男盆友没怎么费力就夺去了。大家后来还约会了少数年吗。小编还以为会有何样万分的以为到呢,未有。作者总认为这种把处女贞操当成如花似玉一遍事很愚钝。所以您可以想象,当自个儿开采自个儿原来是被用过即弃的废料(或棒棒糖)时有多愕然。”(I
have never really understood what the big deal was about virginity.
Really. Mine was lost without a great deal of fanfare to a high school
boyfriend whom I dated for several years afterward. I expected to feel
different—I didn’t. The whole precious-flower-virginity thing always
seemed silly to me. So imagine my surprise when I found out that I was
just a used-up piece of trash (or candy) without it.)

作者相比较纳闷的是,女权主义者总体上是瞧不起男子的。但是在拍卖本身的人事时,她们对男士的势态显然又是另一番景点。诚然,她们与相公上床,再亦不是为了取悦孩他爹,更不是为了薪火相传,而纯粹是为着协和的兴奋。用瓦伦蒂露骨的话,正是:一边做女权主义者,一边交配!(Fucking
while feminist !)

只是,面临一人性欲如此高涨态度如此强势的女权主义床伴,哪壹人小哥们消受得起?

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